Why Successful Businessmen are not so successful when it comes to Investing in Share Market?

 5^th April 2023

Why Successful Businessmen are not so successful when it comes to Investing in Share Market?

Dear Fellow Investors,

Namaste! Wish you all a very happy new financial year. May your balance sheet size and profitability increases at a faster rate in the new financial year. Nifty has moved from 16800 in the march last week to 17500 today. From our side we had categorically said following on 20^th March - https://bestofhiteshparikh.blogspot.com/2023/03/why-market-may-move-up-faster-than-down.html.

Market is moving up. Today GOLDMAN SACH has come out with a NIFTY target of 20000 by March 2024. We were the first to share to our readers to buy.

I know most would have missed our call. Let me deal with the successful businessmen and their not so success in share market investments.

What is BUSINESSMEN doing with his business?

A typical businessman would be managing the business, controlling the business and growing the business. In the total process – he is DOING something day and night. He truly believes that without DOING YOU CAN’T GET SOMETHING. So, he keeps on doing.

Look at the shop keeper – he would open the shop early in the morning, clean the shop and wait for the customer. He will manage the sales, purchase and accounts and his assistance. It means he is also DOING something from morning to evening.

When such a successful person comes to the market – they fail or they don’t get that much success as they have got in their business. Why?

Doing V/s. Being: -

Investing is not DOING concept. It’s a BEING concept.

Let me make things clear with a simple example. Look at the typical man and woman when they want to  become parents. The MAN has DOING attitude. A woman has nothing to do. She has to be receptive to start with. Once she is receptive, her chances of becoming pregnant becomes higher.

In today’s time the woman is also working and they are also ambitious. They are also having a DOING mindset. Being a student of astrology – I have observed from my 30 years of experiences with my astro-clients that such woman needs IVF and other medical support system when they want to become MOTHER. I have helped many of them to avoid IVFs by working on the mindsets of would be mothers.

Once she becomes pregnant – she just has to take care of herself and her health. Would be NEW-BORN will grow automatically slowly and take birth at proper time. Let me share you an interesting statistics on MISCARRIAGE.

Most miscarriages - 8 out of 10 (80 percent) - happen in the first trimester before the 12^th week of pregnancy. Miscarriage in the second trimester (between 13 and 19 weeks) happens in 1 to 5 in 100 (1 to 5 percent) pregnancies. Pregnancy loss that happens after 20 weeks is called stillbirth.

My experiences with my clients is also the same – clients who have DOING MINDSET in the stock market get out FRUSTRATED in the first year. There is very less chances of them getting out after 3 years.

The point is if you love DOING – DOING and only DOING – you will fail in share market 100% of the times or your success will not be as prominent as you are in your business or profession.

How attitude of BEING can help you make tons of money?

Just check the kids. They are more open and near with the mothers than father. If at all they are open with their father – their father must have raised them with a Motherly attitude.

Just try to lie to your mother and your mother may be a home maker or not having much exposure of the world as you are having – she will catch you red-handed. Why? Because she is connected with your BEING. What’s more – she will forgive you for your lie because she LOVES you unconditionally.

Those investors who are ready to fall in love with the market – those who are ready to surrender to the market unconditionally – they always end up making tons of money.

Look at any typical house – WIFE may or may not be earning / may or may not be educated – but all the decisions in the home are taken after consultation with her only. If she says NO – it means NO. A husband may be a billionaire or the leader in the outside WORLD – but in the home – he follows the WIFE only.

She controls the HUSBAND / KIDS and HOME AFFAIRS without controlling any of them. She is not doing anything. She is just available to them when they need. This is BEING concept.

What NEXT?

When you have an attitude of BEING – things becomes automatically for you. It’s like a LIFT – you just have to step into it and press the floor number – rest will be done automatically.

AI has become the TALK of the town and people are fearing JOB LOSSES and other repercussions. The persons with DOING mindset will be the most affected by AI. The person with BEING mindset will have nothing to worry.

If you are SUCCESSFUL in your business and not so successful in SHARE MARKET – this post is for you.

I wish you all the best.

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Hitesh Parikh.