Hindi Movie “SAALA KHADOOS” & Your Investment Success

Friday, January 29, 16

Hindi Movie “SAALA KHADOOS” & Your Investment Success

Greetings from Hitesh! After a long time that I show a movie on the FIRST day!! I could relate that to Investment success. So, just sharing with you all.

Background:-

Movie starts with Fisherman family with two daughters. Mother is a visionary and she supports here daughters in BOXING. The game plan was to get selected in BOXING and join the police job in Sports Quota. They believed that if their elder daughter becomes the Police, they all would live happily ever after!!

Every time elder daughter losses – she starts crying as she will not be getting into the police job. Her younger sister is naughty and she has a care a damn attitude towards WORLD at a large.

ADI TOMER – a coach finds the fire in the younger daughter – MADHI and he proposes to train her. But she is not ready. ADI pays her Rs.500 per day so that she attends the Training for BOXING.

Now let us see the events and the investment lessons.

PURPOSE of ELDER SISTER - LAXMI:-

All she wants is to join the Police in sports quota. She plays a trick in defeating her own sister at NATIONAL level selection and she got selected due to failure of her sister.

She knows in deep down that MADHI is the BEST. But she finds it difficult to understand – how come she is better boxer than her?

In fact, in the later part of the movie she was shown to ask the Coach that how come he is not teaching her the same technique, which he is teaching MADHI?

My understanding is simple. She did not have very STRONG emotional purpose to do the boxing. She wanted to do it so that she can earn some money /name and a secured job in police.

Moreover, this was her mother’s dream!! Not her own dream.

Normal investors come to the market without any strong emotional purpose. They have spare money from their job/business and they want to invest the same into various asset class. For them investing is a BYE PRODUCT and their job or business is the main product.

They are not doing JOB, so that they can invest. They are investing because they have spare money from their JOB. (READ This AGAIN). They lack the purpose. Investing is a secondary activity for them.

So, when a FALL comes in the market – they are the first one to RUN away. They do not have the NERVE of the STEEL to stay in the game when market is volatile.

MADHI:-

She is younger / energetic and carefree girl. She does everything for the family / her sister with lot of happiness. She has no GOALS. She is the example of BEING!! (if you want to understand BEING – must see her).

ADI cajoles her to join the BOXING by paying Rs.500 per day. She is doing BOXING TRAINING so that she can get Rs.500 per day for her family. She spends all the money for her family.

She outsmarts all the players and her sister too. Transformation in her life comes when she comes to know that COACH has spent all his BANK balance on her training and even sold his BIKE to pay money to her family!!

She gets her emotional call to become the CHAMPION. She loses the same due to her sister’s jealousy. Later on some other coach wanted to exploit her and she refused and she is left in the JAIL. Finally she could contact her MASTER ADI.

Her second round starts with WILD CARD entry and she won the entry into International Championship. Ultimately she wins the game and become the international BOXING champions.

She starts without purpose. But when she finds her inner calling – Boxing becomes life for her. She spends all her time in BOXING practice. She follows the MASTER. In fact, she loves him. Winning the Boxing was her way to say “ I love you to HIS MASTER”. She had lot of emotional stakes in winning the game. She was not in the GAME for some MONEY / RECOGNITION or some JOB. She was there to get LOVE of her LIFE. She was there to realize her POTENTIAL as a BOXER.

Success in any area is a part of your EMOTIONAL STAKES. How BADLY you want it? This is the FIRE. Unless you can generate this fire from within – no coach can help you very much.

Emotional Stakes with Emotional Purpose:-

Most guys want a job security because they have emotional stakes like child education / housing loan / parents medical treatment / gold necklace for wife etc, etc. They want to give the best to their family whatever they can give at their levels. But they lack the EMOTIONAL PURPOSE for which they can DIE or they can KILL.

People with EMOTIONAL STAKES end up living a life full of compromises and they lead the average life. Their sole propose is ECONOMIC security, nothing beyond that. They call themselves – “SANTOSHI”!!!

My observation of successful investors tells me that they have the combination of the two. They also get failures. They do not have the control on MARKET. But because of the above TWO – they find out the way to stay on the ground for a little while more when average investors go out of the market.

Emotional purpose is the FAN, which can continuously give you AIR to keep on the fire of your Emotional Stakes.

What can be your emotional purpose?

There can be N number of purposes. In fact, there can be as many purposes as many people are there on the EARTH. So, there can’t be any singular purpose. It depends on you.

However, the best purpose to start with should be – FINANCIAL FREEDOM. All successful investors have their basic root in the FREEDOM. They want to live their life at their own terms. They do not want the mundane life of 9 to 6. They are ready to work for 18 hours but the goal is simple – they want to get the FREEDOM first. When they get the FREEDOM – name / fame and money comes automatically.

What NEXT?

You have two options.

1.  Go on DOING what you are doing (job or business) so that you can invest some money and earn some money.

                                    Or

2.  You can learn the fine art of investment from us and achieve financial freedom first so that you can do any JOB or BUSINESS out of your choice.

Your choice will decide your DESTINY.

Wish you all a VERY HAPPY INVESTING.

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