7 Habits of Highly Miserable People. If you have any, work on them

 30^th March 2022

7 Habits of Highly Miserable People. If you have any, work on them

Dear Fellow Travelers,

Namaste! The new financial year is about to start. Many people would have made tons of money in the last year and many would have lost tonnes of money during the same time and in the same business. It is said that YOU CREAT THE HABITS and HABITS CREATES YOU. There are 7 sure shot habits – if you follow them – I assure you – you will remain MISERABLE for life. Let me deal with each of them.

1.   Negative Association to having Surplus Money: -

Most normal people want money but they have 100% opposite thoughts about having money.

a.   Money is the root cause of all evil.

b.   More money means more tax.

c.    More money means I am doing something wrong.

d.   More money means fewer friends and more jealousy.

e.   More money means a lot of insecurities.

f.    More money means some GUNDA can call me and ask for HAFTA. They may kidnap my near ones and ask for RANSOM.

g.   To make more money I will have to incur more SINS.

h.  How will I handle so much money? Near and dear may kill me for money.

i.     By the time I make money, I will be too old.

j.     On the religious side it is believed that the person who is satisfied with what they have is eligible to enter the HEAVEN or get NIRVANA. So, let me be satisfied with whatever I have.

Now you have one desire to MAKE MONEY and so many deep-rooted wrong beliefs for not making money. Ultimately, the beliefs win, and you are left with less money or no money.

2.   Association is okay, but the abundance of money is not the PRIORITY.

Say you have created a positive association with money. So, you are not having wrong beliefs as mentioned in point number 1.

But if making money in abundance is not your priority, you will not make tons of money. The abundance of money should be your absolute necessity to make tons of money.

It is said if you don’t ask, MOTHER will also not SERVE you your favourite dish. The same goes for ABUNDANCE of money. Mother NATURE is ready to give you everything, but you must ask. Unless you ask, you will not get it.

So, not having an abundance of money as a strong and only priority is the reason for your current situation. 

3.   Never Developing Effective Strategy to BUILD WEALTH. 

Let us see you have a positive association and you have made an abundance of money as your main priority, but if you don’t have an effective strategy to push you towards your goals, you will end up being normal. This can be done through role modeling or meeting people who have already made it what you want to get. In yesterday’s post, we talked about 5 factors of success. You must follow all 5 factors simultaneously for holistic success and happiness.

Normally, I follow the WARREN BUFFETT model for myself and advise my clients to follow the same as it has been perfected by living legend over a period of the last 90 years. I don’t have to reinvent the wheel. It is already there. I just fix it in my car and run.

Buffett's model requires that you have the PATIENCE / PATIENCE and PATIENCE. Most guys fail here. 

4.   Failure to follow up plans.

How many times do you decide on 31^st December that from 1^st January, you will wake up at 5am and go jogging? This has been the yearly ritual for most of the guys. But very few can take it beyond 4^th or 5^th January. 

The same is the case with wealth creation rules. You have done role modeling; you have developed the rules and strategies for the same but very few guys are able to follow it rigorously.

We request our new clients to be with us at least for three years to finish the processes of installing the habits of wealth creation. Many times, non-serious guys get out in a year or two. He does not have the patience to invest 3 years to invest in learning the finer strategies. We need strategies as per market situations and in 3 years normally, the market goes up and goes down. The idea is to train him for TEJI and MANDI both. But NORMAL guys don’t want to follow this simple request. 

5.   Relying on EXPERTS. 

I hear many guys talk about XYZ media expert has recommended this and that. They make it a practice to rely on them for market situations and stock tips. They scan through all the business channels and they find out ideas. It is their favourite pastime to discuss these ideas and add all the shares in the lot of 5 or 10 shares per company. I have seen people are having 50-70 companies in a portfolio of just Rs.5 lakh. 

Time and again we have proven how experts have gone 100% wrong, intentionally or otherwise. 

We want you to take the education from authentic sources and develop your own style which is suitable to you and your present circumstances. We don’t want you to copy any expert or us.   

6.   Financial complacency. 

At some point or the other, all normal guys start getting a feeling that they have made good money and they are not able to spend the same. This kind of thought process leads to complacency in the minds and the same gets reflected in the behaviour. Thanks to COVID in the last 2 years – many guys have not been able to spend their money. He now stops following rules, following daily rituals for wealth building. This leads to the downfall of what has been created so far. 

7.   Allowing Financial Crisis turns into Financial Ruin.

Jesse Livermore, the best-known trader of the last century had made 3 million USD in a mandi of 1907. Just imagine USD 3 million 114 years ago. Today’s billionaire. In the next month, he was down with just 3 lakh USD due to his mistakes in doing a TRADE. Like this, he had wiped out his total capital 4 times and created back the same multi times after that.

The financial crisis is a part of the game. In November 2016, we had DEMONETISATION and many guys with huge cash surplus got losses up to 40% of their amount. Now, the point is how you handle this situation. Whether you can manage your losses or whether you get affected by the same and ruin everything. The moot point is managing the crisis.

How astrology is connected with the above 7 secrets? 

Whatever a person feels he has two effects for sure – mental and physical. All effects are first created in the mind and then it is reflected in the body. Moon stands for mind in astrology. If the moon is not associated with positive planets or aspected by positive planets – the person misses the opportunity to create a solid mental base or work on 5 factors as given by Lord Krishna in Gita. The above 7 reasons are proof of not having a solid mental base. 

In traditional astrology – Moon alone without any planets or without any planets on both sides or without any aspect is considered a very bad sign for the prosperity of the person. 

So, everything is connected. 

What NEXT?

The new financial year is about to start. Design the Destiny of your DREAMS and live life King Size. If you need help in the same, you can approach us

Have a life of Abundance.

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