Impact of 12 years LIFE CYCLES on Quality of your Life

 30^th March 2023

Impact of 12 years LIFE CYCLES on Quality of your Life

Dear Fellow Travelers,

Namaste! Deep down, we all are in search of HAPPINESS in our life. The definition or the idea of happiness changes in different life cycles. Normal Human lives 6-7 life cycles of 12 years. If we study and understand the role of each life cycle in our life – we can change the quality of our life instantly. Quality of our life at any given point of time is the sum total of all of our life cycles lived up to that moment. Let us explore them in details.

1.   0 to 12 years – Family and Cultural Life Cycle: -

This is the first cycle. A child is born and he is getting particular family / religious and cultural background. This is the base of anybody’s life. The family atmosphere / quality of relationships among the parents and other relatives makes an impact on the thought process of the child for a life time. The unique feature of this life cycles is – your HERO is your father or your mother. You follow any of them as if they are the BEST in the world. Your parents make a huge impact here. You start going to school at this juncture and start learning basics.

 

2.   13 to 24 years – Friendship and Education Life Cycle: -

Now we enter into the TEENAGE. Our FRIENDS becomes the major source of impact in our life. Suddenly, we feel that our parents don’t know anything and our friends know everything. Quality of friends / teachers and school we get in this cycle changes the learning of the first cycle. Many times – we become anti-family, anti-social in this phase of the life depending on our friends.

Major decision of educations are taken in this phase and what you learn / how well you learn will impact your quality in next cycles of your life.

3.    25 to 36 years – Career and Marriage Cycle: -

This is the beginning of the new life. We start our career – Job / Business or Profession in this cycle. Once we are settled – we go for a Marriage or Relationship cycle.

Many mothers have unique complaints about their kids in this cycle – my son listens to his wife only or daughter talks about the in-laws only. Job goers are affected by the quality of colleagues.  

In this cycle we start our own family. Mostly our parents and other family members are there to support us in this cycle.

Quality of life in this cycle is the direct results of the first 2 cycles. Say a guy has done an MBA from IIM and another guy has done MBA from local institute – his salary and other opportunities will change.

This is the cycle – we learn to start on our own. Decisions made here are made by us and we are solely responsible for the same. We look forward for a Good Partner in Marriage / Good Career / Good Starting Income in this cycle.

Our saving – investing and our spending habits are formed in this cycle.

 

4.   37 to 48 years – Hard Work – Struggle Cycle:-

We developed some ideas / perceptions / fantasies and notions about career / life partner / family/ friends / world at large. In the 3^rd cycle we have seen all in reality. Now, we know – how the real world operates. When we know the reality - the time for hard work and struggle starts.

We see the true colours of our life partner / our business associates / colleagues / employees / family and friends in this cycle for sure.

In this cycle – you get the innocent love of your kids who are in their first cycles. This cycle decides our holistic GROWTH – in terms of money / health and relationships you develops. Our financial and social status is carved out in this cycle.

The cycle of EMI for HOUSE LOAN / CAR LOAN / FOREIGN Tours Loans starts for many. Thanks to this - STRESS - BLOOD PRESSURES and DIABETES kinds of ailments also joins the party.

The quality of life in this cycle is the results of the first 3 cycles.

5.   49 to 60 Years – Cycle of Success or Failures: -

We have completed 25 plus years in career. We are celebrating our silver jubilee in marriage. Our kids are starting their 3^rd cycle. We have created good wealth – good contacts and have good circle.

This cycle is the sum total of the life we have lived so far.

If we are not successful and happy in this cycle – the root cause could be any of the decisions in the previous cycles. Say somebody has taken huge loans to enjoy the life in the 4^th cycle – he will be still struggling in this cycle to pay up them.

This cycle decides – you will have GRATITUDE towards the EXISTENCE / GOD / GURU / PARENTS and SOCIETY as a whole or GRUDGE against them.

6.   61 to 72 years – Cycle of PAY BACK

Depending on our Success and Failures in the last cycle – we will have GRATITUDE or GRUDGE against SOCIETY at a large.

Person with gratitude will support the fellow persons in the society with whatever he has – money / knowledge and other resources.

Person with Grudge will become cynic. He will doubt each and everybody in his life and society.

Our health will depend on your inner feelings of gratitude and grudge to a large extent in this phase of your life.

Major time in this phase will go in Religious activities or Social activities. Many will support their KIDS FAMILY by looking after their grandkids.

7.   73 to Eternity – the cycle of Transformation  

Our concepts of LIFE / BODY STRENGTH / EGO reach to the TRANSFORMATION. Our perception of the world at large goes for a transformation as we reach to this stage of our life.

This is the phase – we can contribute in the best way in the society at large and we will also need the support of society for managing our life. Our kids will be in their 4-5^th cycle and grand kids in their 3^rd cycle. It means all are super busy and we are left alone.

Quality of our mindset at this stage – indicates your maturity and understanding of the nature at large.

Ultimately, we go for the new life or transformation of this life. Our death is the single incident to indicate the quality of life we have lived in the last 6 cycles.

How to get the best quality of life in the last cycle?

Major mistakes / mishaps takes place in the 3^rd and 4^th cycle in any person’s life. Bad luck / Bad marriage / Bad career and Bad spending habits takes a toll on the person’s quality of the life forever.

Role of mentor / life coach / role model becomes the most important in this phase of life. If we take care of our life in these phases – the last 2-3 phases can be improved drastically.

What NEXT?

You may be in any of the above cycle. I don’t know – how happy you are at this stage in your life? If you are not 100% happy – you can take inputs for DESTINY MANAGEMENT and take your life to the next levels.

Wish you all a HAPPY LIFE.

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