How to balance LOGIC and EMOTIONS?

 16^th January 2022

How to balance LOGIC and EMOTIONS?

Dear Fellow Travellers,

Namaste! Reading yesterday’s post on the gap between LOGIC and EMOTIONS – many readers had immediately asked us – how to balance them. Deep down this gap is a gap between knowing and doing. Thanks to google – information is available in tons but the challenge is to use that information to take the quality of life to the next levels. We will share the solution today.

Let me share how the emotions are triggered in the normal routine.

1.   A chain smoker knows that someday he may have cancer. But when the doctor and medical report say the same thing – he immediately stops the smoking.

2.   An Alcoholic knows that someday LEVER will get affected. But when the doctor and medical reports say the same thing – he stops drinking.

3.   Looking at tons of death due to corona – most people, who were not ready to buy, went for medical and life insurance policies.

If you see the person knew - not to smoke / not to drink and take insurance from day one. But the emotions got triggered when the situations created a SENSE OF URGENCY for them.

As an astrologer and Vastu consultant – I have seen the same behavior from the individuals. When they have problems – they are ready to do anything and everything. The normal excuse of NOT HAVING money or TOO MUCH MONEY goes away and they anyhow arrange the money.

During CORONA – those who did not have Mediclaim – sold gold or mortgage their house and did the treatment of their near and dear. When SENSE OF URGENCY comes – money and other excuses run away.

How do SMART People deal with these situations?

They create SENSE of URGENCY when things are normal.

1.   Prince Siddhartha saw an old man / patient and a dead man and he saw the end of his life. He left everything in search of permanent happiness and he became Buddha. This is the ultimate sense of urgency.

2.   Dhirubhai invested an extra Rs.1500 Cr in the plant when there was no expectation of an earthquake.

3.   Stephen Covey in his book – First Things First – talks about doing Important things first before they become URGENT things.  

Advantages of creating Fake Sense of Urgency: -

1.   You have peace of mind when you execute things. While in actual urgency – you are panicked and you lose the sense of judgment.

2.   Since you have peace of mind – your execution will be smooth and less costly. In actual urgency – you will be panicked and end up paying much more than what is needed.

3.   Yesterday, we shared an example of Steve Jobs. He took 8 months’ time to decide to operate and that took his life. So, what you can take care of before the problem occurs – you may not be able to take care in spite of spending tons of money when real urgency comes.

4.   The biggest advantage will be – your focus on your current work will increase since you have taken care of your urgent works. When you do your work with a focus – you will have tons of rewards in terms of money/health and relationships.

How to Create Sense of Urgency?

This is the main point. You need a Vision of the coming time or coming situations in your life and investments. Most people are not blessed with VISION. It is a very rare quality.

The second-best option is to ask a consultant in relevant areas. They have seen various cases in their life and they are best equipped to guide you for the probable situations that may come in your life and investments.

All normal people must have a team of the following 5 consultants to help them prepare for their coming time and needs well in advance. They should be your permanent team members and not need-based consultants. These five will ensure to have your health and wealth last longer,

1.   Legal Consultant.

2.   Chartered Accountant.

3.   Doctors.

4.   Investment Consultant.

5.   Astrologer.

What NEXT?

At Destiny Management we provide the services for the numbers 4 and 5. We have also developed - Personal Destiny Management Product which guides you for each of your 365 days in a year. Those who want to get future-ready can approach us.

Get ready for your TOMORROW, Today.

Wish you all a Super Sunday.

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Learn a Lesson. Live with Passion & Invest with Reason.

Hitesh Parikh.