If you have no time to read 1000 books on Success & Happiness, read this post and transform your life.

05 September 2018

If you have no time to  read 1000 books on Success & Happiness, read this post and transform your life.

Greetings from Hitesh! From last 8 days we have dealt with various aspects of investments and the same has been appreciated by success minded investors. Today we are taking a break from investments and we are talking about much needed success and happiness. This post deals with holistic aspects of dealing with success and happiness. If you follow, I am sure you will enjoy both.

Everybody wants to be successful and there are experts in this field also!! They are sharing their formulas with everybody and they make tons of money. We are giving our formula 100% free of cost as a part of our social commitment. Read it patiently. This post is little long than usual. But it’s worth your time.

As a kid I was reading Arabian Nights / Mahabharata and Ramayana. The magic wand in Arabian Nights / Flying Hanuman in Ramayana and Arjun killing lacs of guys with a single arrow always used to fascinate me. At the time of reading – no TV serials had come – so it used to give my imaginations a free hand!! I was in search of some MAGIC WAND and fortunately I have got it and I am going to share with you. Just read.

How I started my Journey to Success?

I started with “Pushing to the Front” by Orison Swett Marden as a school guy and I moved to many authors since then. I would have gone through at least 5000 books plus lot of seminars/ classes/ personal coaching in search of my success. I had honestly tried to apply the above learning in my life but every time I was stopping at just 60%. I was not able to enjoy my success and due to that I was always unhappy despite being successful. When I look at the life of my friends – I also find the same thing in their life. They are successful but unhappy!!

I wanted to solve this puzzle and I got my answer in Gitaji. Yes, Lord Krishna helped me in my journey. Today I am living my dream. I am not only successful but happy also. With his blessings, I am sharing the same with you. Just read it, I assure you, you will never have to go to any success coach for life time.

It is given in the Chapter 18 Verse 13 and 14.

TEXT 13-14

pancaitani maha-baho,  karanani nibodha me 

sankhye krtante proktani siddhaye sarva-karmanam

adhisthanam tatha karta 

karanam ca prthag-vidham, 

vividhas ca prthak cesta 

daivam caivatra pancamam

The literal meaning of the same is as under – there are five causes of success in life – place / performer / resources / Mixing of all the three and fate. Now I will take one by one each of the factors and explain my views and experiences on the same.

1.     Adhisthanam:-  

This is the first step in anybody’s success. The literal meaning is PLACE, however deeper study gives you insights that it talks about Human Body / Place / Position and Vastu.

Let me deal with the Place first. During Mango Season – you go to market and you will find RATNAGITI Alphonso is commanding the premium. If you are eating Almonds – Mamro Almonds from Iran commands the premium. Kesar from Kashmir commands the premium.  

Look at the long history of Hindu Sadhus – they all went to Himalayas for Meditation or Tapscharya. Most Jain Tirthankars left their body from Bihar – PAVAPURI Area. Current Peak Performance GURU – Anthony Robbins / Steve Jobs had been to Himalaya’s before they became world famous. History says – Jesus and Moses also took their last breath in Himalayas. Pandava’s also went to Himalayas and left for heaven from there. This indicates the importance of PLACE for your Success point of view!! You need particular PLACE to execute your dreams!! Without that proper place – you can’t get the success. I can share many such examples.

Now let us see Place from Position point of view. Narendra Modi is a great leader but as a PM of India he has more powers then just CM of Gujarat!! So, position makes a lot of difference.

Look at Abhishek. Had he not born in Amitabh’s home – do you think he would have been allowed to fail in first 8 movies and still he got the 9^th one? In fact, most new comers do not get the second movie, it they fail in first. So, whose family you are born makes a lot of sense in personal success.

Now let us look at the Place as a VASTU. I have studied more than 500 celebrities + businessmen’s house/ bungalows in Mumbai and India. I have seen the effect of the same in their life. Just to give some names like Harshad Mehta / Parag Parikh / Lalit Shah of Raj Travels. It was the house that created the events in their life!! I can’t share the names of living persons as per ethical practices.

There are certain half-baked intellectuals – they will argue PLACE does not make a difference!! For them GITA says – Place is YOUR BODY.

Body is also a place...without BODY – you can’t do anything, and they will call you GHOST!! Body is a dwelling place of your SOUL / Body is born in a place / your body stays in a particular House / your house is in particular town or city / your body is PM or CM or Actor or Businessman or serviceman. Everywhere the PLACE is involved!!

Whatever you are doing today – you can’t do it – if you do not have BODY.

I have seen many uneducated Indian’s earning Rs.3000- Rs.5000 per month in India and going to USA and now they are millionaire in just 5 years!! This is called the importance of PLACE....you are the same, but you changed the place – you become what you are today!!

Look at the NORTH born guys all over the world – they will have more of a white skin then the south born guys all over the world – place makes lot of difference in colour of your skin also.

100% of western management and their thoughts are directed towards Man, Material, Machines, Money and Marketing. Not a single guy has been able to give importance to PLACE as Lord Krishna has given.

Since our educations system is a copy of Western Model, most so-called educated guys feel shame in following VASTU and other advanced concepts of Oriental Sciences. As a result, they live incomplete life.

Lord Krishna has considered the PLACE as the first factor of success. At Destiny Management we also give PLACE the first rank. 

For normal guy, it is not possible to decide where to born/ in whose house to take birth – but it is 100% possible to create VASTU most suitable for your success and happiness!! So, create it, if you want to become successful or if you want to enjoy the fruits of your success while you are on planet earth.

Now let us see the SECOND Factor – KARTA.

KARTA (You):-

Let me ask simple questions – who are you? Have you ever thought? You are a collection of your believes (e.g. jain/hindu/muslim/catholic / smart / handsome/ well behaved etc. )/ attitudes / habits / educational qualifications / money power / position power / various skill sets.

If you really ask – who am I? – You will find either or all of the above in various proportions in yourself. In last century – mankind had two guys who shaped the way we think about ourselves.

The first one was Sigmund Freud.  He said Natural forces make the man the way he is today. It is natural to have SEX/get Angry/ be Greedy / be selfish / be hungry etc. Western concept of Psychology is based on this theory.

Fortunately for the World Human Race – Indians Rishis had better answer. Freud theory is the first step in HUMAN EVOLUTION. If you do what is natural to you – you and animal have no difference!!

Most guys used NATURAL clause to get away from the responsibility of personal growth or to elevate themselves to the next level of life.

In India we see people following FASTING / CELEBACY / AHIMSA and many other qualities. They take themselves to the next levels and it is also NATURAL to PROGRESS!!

Another guy who helped MAN to do away from the responsibility of Personal Growth was Karl Marx.

He had gone further and said – whatever you are is due to your society. If you are poor – it’s the responsibility of SOCIETY to look after you!! Whatever wrong has happened with you – is due to skewed distribution of wealth and if we take money from rich and give it POOR, the society will be happy. Do you think – RUSSIA is the HAPPIEST COUNTRY?

Lord Krishna says – you have a choice to make better choices in your life. You can elevate your life to next levels. You can change your limiting believes / can improve your skill sets / habits / education and go to next levels.

E.g. If you consider Kitchen as a place – your mom or wife as a KARTA – chances are better that you will like your mom’s dish more than your newly wedded wife. Why? Your mom has more experience in Cooking!!

So, follow - Constant and Never-Ending Improvement in your life and thoughts.

90% of the successful guys stop growing once they get the first taste of their success!! That’s why 10% of the RICHEST have 90% of the world’s Wealth!!

Now Let us see THIRD Factor :- Resources

KARANAM:-

I have observed a unique mind set of average business man in India. He will employ 3 guys at Rs.5000 salary then one guy of Rs.15000 Salary in a job which requires HIGHER END SKILLS.

People will buy 3 pairs of Shoes for Rs.1000 each then one pair of Rs.3000. This applies to anything they buy.

When you have a step motherly attitude towards the resources you USE for your growth – it will surely reflect in your personal growth and happiness. If you total Rs.1000 three times – you will get Rs.3000, but to assume that 3 of Rs.1000 will be equal to one of Rs.3000 in results is the biggest fallacy!!

KARANAM is your resources. The quality of your resources will affect your progress and happiness in your day today life.

Just to share an example of AMBANI – when they were building JAMANAGAR Refinery – they projected the construction costing based on Earth Quake on the Richter scale of 6. Dhirubhai asked how much more we will have to spend – if we want it to make it at 8 Richter Scale? Additional Cost was Rs.1500 Crs. He spent that additional money and his plant was intact in 2001 earth quake which was at 7.5 Richter scale.

When AMBANI was building JAMNAGAR Refinery – he employed a GUY with a salary of Rs.30Cr for three years – highest at that time!! He could have got at least 6 people with Rs.5 Crs salary but he did not go for that.

While going for resources – most guys gives reason that they can’t afford costly resources!! When you say – you can’t afford – you mind accepts that and it stops asking the most important question – how to afford it? And take steps to make it affordable.

When you ask this question more often - you will progress faster in your life.

Another aspect of HUMAN Mind is they will buy new costly resources but also keep the old one also. Eg. You buy Apple X and also keep your Nokia mobile. As long as you have NOKIA, you will not fully use your APPLE X. So, when you get new resources – just throw away the old one or sell them or donate them. As long as you keep the old – you will not settle down with the NEW and when you don’t settle down with the NEW – your living standard will not improve. You will live in a state of confusion. Confusion will take away your HAPPINESS.

Now 4^th Factor – (Effectively Mixing the above 3 Factors)  Vividhas Ch Pruthak Chesta:-

Have you seen people carrying Apple X and they just use it for talking!! You wife bought the new TEA POT, Cup and Saucers and kept in Show Case of your drawing room!! You bought New DRESS and kept it in your cup board for wearing it someday or on some good occasion!! You bought the MICROWAVE for cooking, but you do not know how to operate!! You have silver dinner set in your house, but your wife is not using it – as the maid can spoil it while cleaning!!

Most of my friends have bought Mid Segment CAR and they are using the TRAIN to travel to office. They use the CAR on SUNDAY or when they go out of MUMBAI!!

The MAJOR waste of life happens here. You are there/ you have a best of the resources, but you do not have the skill sets to use them / you do not need them or you do not have the self-esteem to use them.

These three factors take away the happiness and satisfaction from your life. You must get away with the things you do not use.

E.G. 1:- Let me share an example of CAR – say you have a CAR of Rs.10 Lakhs. Your parking place will cost you Rs.10 to Rs.15 Lakhs in Mumbai. Your monthly cleaning cost will be Rs.500 plus other maintenance of Rs.2000. You are using it on SUNDAY’s and when you go out – you hire a DIRVER at Rs.500 per day plus food as you are not used to drive on HIGWAYS!! You have to have FUEL cost also!! So, you have spent close to Rs.25 lakhs in fixed cost, plus variable cost of Rs.5000 to Rs.10000 per month. All these for SO Called STATUS of having a car!!

You have wasted your success of having Rs.25 lakhs for so called STATUS. You will never get true happiness!! True happiness comes when you use the things the way it should be used!!

E.G. 2:- Kennedy’s wife married to Steel magnet ONASIS when he was around 70. ONASIS did get the status of marring a beautiful woman but he could not SLEEP with her!! Do you think HE would have been HAPPY at the time of his DEATH?

So, improve your skill sets / your self-esteem and do not spend your money on things you do not need. The best part of the Skill set is that you can hire them!!

Now Let us see the Final factor:- FATE:-

DAIVAM (BHAGYA):-

Given all other things equal – some guys tend to have faster and easier success in life than others. Alternatively, some guys always face difficulties in doing things they want to do. This is FATE.

In India – we have a full-fledged and very advanced system of understanding the FATE of person through His HOROSCOPE. We take three things into consideration – Place of birth (here also PLACE comes first) / Date of Birth and Time of Birth.

There are N numbers of system of reading FATE – but HOROSCOPE gives the most perfect guidance in reading fate.

Fate has three aspects – the Variable Fate – you can change it 100%, Semi Variable - if you know it you can change it and Fixed Fate – you can’t change it!!

Challenge is to find out the SEMI VARIABLE factor and change it to suit your success needs!! Destiny Management helps you reveal the SEMI VARIABLE and FIXED FATE so that you can decide your progress limit and speed.

Fixed fate helps you understand your overall journey from last birth to current birth and future birth. If you work in SEMI VARIABLE areas – you have a chance to change the FIXED FATE someday. We have many examples in India like SATYWAN and SAVITRI – where SATYWAN died and SAVITRI brought him back to the life.

My Personal Call:-

If you have patiently read the above – let me share the real secret now.

All your success or failure is due to above 5 factors only. All factors have equal weights, and all are equally important for your success.

Let me share some of the misconceptions in normal minds.

1.  If I become DOCTOR / Engineer / CA or MBA – my life will be GREAT. Do you think all doctors/Engineers get the JOB or business after their degree?

Given other things equal – a degree will fetch you a better entry then a non-degree. But it does not mean that you will be 100% ahead of the masses or more successful than your next-door neighbour. However, it is 100% better to have degree than non-degree!! So, equip yourself with best of all 5 factors.

2. Many times a client carries out the VASTU and other remedies – they assume that miracles should happen NOW....they need not change – things must change on their own!!

It will give the results to the extent they were missing. Suppose you create the best Vastu and best of the Astro remedies and you do not have the other three qualities which match the above BEST – you will get the poor results or average results.

3. All the five factors keep on over lapping in various situations and at various times. If you can’t think in totality – you will be taken for a ride by so called experts in various areas!!

4.  At Destiny Management we always think in totality and guide our clients in the areas of Investments/ Astrology/Vastu and Personal growth and happiness.

We are not interested in how much money you have, or you can make? Our interest is how much money you can enjoy out of it?

We are not interested in how long you will live? We are interested in what will be the quality of your life till you live?

We are not interested whether you will marry, or not / you will get the job, or not / you will get the promotion or not / you will get the business or not – we are interested in How happy you will be once you get the above?

We call it DESTINY MANAGEMENT.

If you are struggling in are of  success / happiness, you can take advantage of our holistic approach and transform your life.

Have a Great Day.

Hitesh Parikh.