How to use HOROSCOPE for Match Making in Marriage / Partnership / Joint Venture or Live in Relationships.

28^th July, 2020

How to use HOROSCOPE for Match Making in Marriage / Partnership / Joint Venture or Live in Relationships.

Dear Fellow Travelers,

Namaste! Today I am dealing with the most important subject matter for Indian Families. Whether they believe in Astrology or not, 90% of the family will go to an astrologer for Horoscope Matching for their Son or Daughter before taking final marriage decision.

I use the same principals for helping my business clients to do Partnership or Joint Venture.

What a TYPICAL ASTROLOGER does when he does match making for his client?

If you go to a NORMAL astrologer – he will match the RASHI i.e. MOON SIGN of boy and girl and give you marks out of 36. More the marks (known as GUN), it is considered better. They also match the MARS.  Most of you would be aware of MANGLIK and NON-MANGLIK Horoscope while doing matchmaking.  Normal clients also believe this and go ahead with the marriage plans.

Actually, there are 9 planets and the matchmaking should be done with respect to each of the 9 planets and not just 2 planets i.e. MOON and MARS. Why then they follow this method only in India?

How a typical arranged marriage used to take place in India?

The secret lies in the Indian way of arranged marriage. If you understand this secret – you will appreciate the common-sense of our sages and will be more than happy to apply the same.

Normally, a relative or family friend will give you the reference for a girl or a boy.

When they give you the reference – they would have taken care of following things – the position or image of the family in the society / the business background of the family/eating and religious habits of the family / Whether the other members in that family have kids or not? So, reference before referring you a proposal would have matched the following.

1.  The image of the family represents the SUN. It matches.

2.  The business background of the family represents the SATURN. It also matches. 

3.  Eating and religious beliefs represent JUPITER. It also matches.

4.  Kids with family members represent VENUS. It also matches.

5.  MERCURY represents an economic position. It also matches.

If you exclude RAHU and KETU, there are 7 planets. Our reference does the above 5 matchings before giving us the reference. Now, the only two things remain which are 100% individual. 

1^st is the MOOD of the person and 2^nd is the attitude of the person. These both qualities have nothing to do with the name and fame of the family.

MOOD is gauged by Moon and ATTITUDE is gauged by Mars.

So, our SAGES knew the social system and the developed the matchmaking system based on the SOCIAL system of that time.

Most so-called criticizers of HOROSCOPE Matching would argue that they have not matched the horoscope in their family but all have very long-lasting marriages. They may not formally use the word horoscope or astrology but they do match the above 5 things. When 5 things tally out of 7, the chances of successful marriage become very high. So, they also follow astrology without talking about the same.

What happens in typical love marriage?

Love happens when the boy and girl have an opportunity to be with each other for a longer time. The places where they remain for a longer time together generally are working areas or study areas or online in the current time.

When they work together – their SATURN MATCHES / they know the general MOOD of each other so MOON MATCHES / They are attracted towards each other so VENUS matching. But their economic positions (MERCURY) / family NAME (SUN) / eating and religious habits (JUPITER) / ATTITUDE (MARS) – may or may not match. Normally, they do not match. So, in love marriage there are more challenges then arranged marriages.

How the marriage takes place in the current time?

Thanks to online matrimonial sites / Facebook and other social media platforms – there is N number of ways a boy and girl are coming together. The process is boy and girl select each other / chat with each other and then they go to their family for approval and marriage celebration.

Here also – there are many compromises are made by parents just to please their son or daughter. Many online couples have the same issues as love marriage couples with respect to compatibility with each other.

Do we think MATCHMAKING is relevant in the current time?

To answer that let us see what happens in a typical marriage, irrespective of love, or arranged marriage.

In a typical so-called HAPPY marriage, the partner tries to make another person obedient and consider his/her partner as a Possession, he or she owns. Normally, the husband earning in the family, dominated a female, a non-earning member for decades in the past. In the current time, girls are more educated than boys and they are earning well. So, they both try to dominate each other and the rate of divorce has gone up like anything in the last 5 years.

The other thing is very few are ready to give REFERENCE for marriage in current time. They say we can take the guarantees of the parents but we don’t know their son or daughter so well. So, references are not that reliable.

In such scenarios, we recommend a detailed study of HOROSCOPES of boy and girl with each other is highly recommended.

How to use these principles for Business Partnership or Joint Venture?

A business partnership is our specialty. We recommend matching the horoscopes of partners for mutual growth. Because, if they are not indicating growth – the future of all connected partners’ families will suffer. In Marriage – at most two families will suffer. In the case of more than 2 partners – their respective families will suffer.

Money loss is more severe and becomes the reason for suffering in a partner’s relationships and economic conditions in the future.

A joint venture is like short term love relationships. When we apply these principals – they also end up having good economic results and happy relationships. This is very useful when two or more friends come to the stock market and jointly play with their collective money.  

 What NEXT?

This post may or may not be useful to you at a personal level. I have written this post to educate my N number of friends who approaches me for friendly guidance for matchmaking. If you like you can store this for your future reference or forward it to your marriageable friend.   

Those who are planning Partnerships or Joint Venture or Marriage – may approach us for our inputs.

Have a Wonderful Wednesday.

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