“I am unable to understand the difference between DOING and BEING. Can you explain?”
“I am unable to understand the difference between DOING
and BEING. Can you explain?”
Greetings from Hitesh! I feel grateful to all my readers
for their time in reading my post regularly. I keep on receiving questions from
regular readers and many readers have asked me the above questions in a
different fashion. BEING is the root cause for your MENTAL PEACE / HAPPINESS
and SUCCESS. Just understand the same.
Let me deal with an EXAMPLE first.
Have you observed a child upto 5 years? let me share some
of the common traits of a NORMAL CHILD.
1. Get up when Sleep is over.
2. Sleep when sleep comes.
3. Cry for food when feeling Hungry.
4. When awake – full of energy and doing all MASTI and
jumping / playing.
5. They will not eat when their stomach is full, in spite of
their mother running behind.
6. They will sleep anywhere when the sleep comes.
7. They will greet all the guys with big SMILES. Many will
run to hug them.
8. They will touch their PRIVATE PARTS with 100% normality.
9. When they have NATURE’s call they will ask their mother
without being ASHAMED of the people sitting besides or do it in public also.
10.
He lacks the EGO of himself. When
HUNGRY – he will point towards stomach and tell his mom – that “this is hungry”
rather than “I am HUNGRY”.
11.
They will 100% depend on their mother
for all of their NEEDS till certain age.
In short – a CHILD, as born, will live in a 100% NATURAL
form. They follow the NATURAL CYCLE rather than any MORAL or RELIGIOUS RULES.
When they remain in NATURAL CYCLE – we all love kids. However CUNNING a person
may be – he can’t stop loving a kid!!
You will find a CHILD always HAPPY / always PEACEFUL /
always STRESS FREE and always full of ENERGY.
The way CHILD is living can be called as a status of
BEING. He does not do anything and he is not aware about DOING. Other name of
BEING is LIVING IN PRESENT. No Past and No Future, 100% pure PRESENT.
Being CHILDLIKE is the easiest way to reach to the BEING –
JESUS had said….
In MATHEW 18.3 JESUS said:- “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like
little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”
The Great MAHAPRABHUJI, who established the VAISHNAV SAMPRADAI – asked
his followers to worship – BAL KRISHNA (kid form of LORD KRISHNA). His purpose
was simple – when you be with the KID for 24 hours with a feelings of SEVA –
you BECOME CHILD LIKE.
LORD KRISHNA talked about just BEING in 2nd CHAPTER of GITA
as SANKHYA YOG.
BUDDHA talked
about the same thing when he said – “You just have to KNOW. You don’t have to
do anything.”
ZEN MASTERS also talked about – NON-DOING.
All these GUYS talked about PURE BEING – CHILD LIKE – but
it required the highest level of INTELLECTUAL CAPACITIES. Most NORMAL GUYS do not have that. In fact, ARJUN could not
understand. Had he understood – GITA would have been over in just 2 Chapters?
NORMAL GUYS want to do something. They ask their GURU –
WHAT TO DO? SHOULD I do this JAP or that JAP or this Pooja or that Pooja!! They
want remain busy in DOING. So, KRISHNA started with KRAMA YOG / BHAKTI YOGA and
other combinations of the three main yoga. BUDDHISAM also had to make
compromises in CHINA / JAPAN / THAILAND and TIBBET.
Have you READ about GOD HELPING SAINTS in their DIFFICULT
TIMES?
I am sure you must have read many stories (people call
it CHAMATKAR) of GOD helping SAINTS. Many stories are there for NARASIH
MEHTA / MIRA BAI and N number of other saints or GODLY people.
The FACT is – there is no CHAMATKAR. When you were CHILD –
your mother was there to look after your needs. Same way when you become CHILD
LIKE – Nature / GOD will take care of you!! It is not available to particular
SAINT or Particular RELIGION person. It is available to STATUS. When you REACH
to that STATUS – you get it.
If you have gone to the top of BURGE KHALIFA – you can see
the 500 miles ahead of you. You may be OLD / you may be child / you may be
ADULT / you may follow any religion / you may believe in GOD or you may not
believe in GOD. It has nothing to do with your VISION of 500 miles. VISION
comes due to your STATUS of BEING on the TOP of BURGE KAHLIFA!!
How does this AFFECT your investment behaviour?
Market is nothing but BEING. All the guys with an attitude
of doing / beating the market return fails because BEING can’t be won with
DOING. You have to go to the level of BEING. When your BEING JOINS with the
MARKET BEING – you win automatically.
Many fathers would have observed that when they come tired
from their office/business – they play with their CHILD for half an hour and
they get FRESH. Why? They join with the BEING of their CHILD. They become CHILD
LIKE, STRESS FREE.
Same way when your BEING joins to the BEING of NATURE you
achieve MOKSHA or NIRVANAN in the terminology of BUDDHA / KRISHNA.
When your being joins with the BEING of market – you
achieve FINANCIAL FREEDOM in terminology of HITESH PARIKH. In this stage –
market talks to you and you don’t need CHART or ECONOMIC INDICATORS to
understand its move. Market just tells you about his next move. I am sharing
from my personal experiences. You have to try me to believe me.
What NEXT?
Many guys would have got the difficulties in understanding
the concept of KARMANYE VADHIKARASTE / NISHKAM KARMA YOG which LORD KRISHNA was
telling ARJUN in GITA.
If you have a DOING MIND – you will NEVER understand those
concepts. You need to go into BEING first – then and then only you will
understand those concepts in totality.
If you want to ACHIEVE – Financial Freedom – approach me
for a comprehensive training.
Live With Passion…Invest With Passion.
Hitesh Parikh
Your Personal Destiny Manager.
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