Do you suffer from “MERA BAAP CHOR HEY” Syndrome?

 22^nd December 2021

Do you suffer from “MERA BAAP CHOR HEY” Syndrome?

Dear Fellow Investors,

Namaste! Thanks a ton for appreciating our accuracy about 2021. This is my Guru’s blessings on me. Many readers were repenting for their losses in the current market situation. Many readers and clients talk about their mistakes in the past and they repent even now. Many have complaints about their overall suffering in their life and their current situations due to those suffering. In short, they are suffering from "MERA BAAP CHOR HEY" syndrome.

Some of the most NORMAL sentences we keep on hearing are…

1.   I should have listened to my parents or consultants or friends.

2.   I should not have done this or that.

3.   I should have taken the trouble to ask my learned friends before doing this.

4.   I had a very tough childhood or marriage life. I should not have suffered at that time.

5.   I should have bought when the market fell and I should have sold when the market was at the top.

6.   I should have learned the invest in a proper way before venturing into the market.

7.   I should not have taken a loan and invested in shares.

I am sure many readers would have got these kinds of feelings at some of the other points of time in life and investments. Many are repenting of their above issues and they are feeling sorry for the same.

Those who are sharing above may look innocent or scapegoat or people who have got an unfair deal in life. Listeners may give consolation to them or may feel sorry for that person.

Movie DEEWAR – “MERA BAAP CHOR HEY”:-

If you are a Hindi movie lover – you must have seen the DEEWAR. In the movie, ELDER SON becomes the GUNDA because somebody wrote – MERA BAAP CHOR HEY on his HAND. He wanted to take REVENGE for the same and he did become a very successful GUNDA. The younger brother became Police because he wanted to stop the GUNDA GARDI in the World.

See the situation was the same. Both the brothers had suffered and had a bad childhood. One became Gunda and the other became Police.  

Wrong REPENTING: -

Those who keep on sharing – I SHOULD have – kind of feelings are living in the past. They have not come to the PRESENT times yet. They love remembering their PAST mistakes without making any changes in their PRESENT behaviour. They don’t want to take corrective actions for their mistakes.  Somehow, they have got the PAST TIMES to remember their mistakes and cry whenever they meet the new person. Some become REVENGEFUL for their suffering in the past like Deewar Hero.  

If you really want to end your suffering or change the situation – the following questions may be helpful.

1.   What have you done to come out of your mistakes/situations?

2.   What corrective actions you have taken once you realised it was your mistake?

3 If you have not bought in 2008 fall / 2012 fall / 2016 fall / 2018 fall and 2020 fall – are you buying now or not? OR just talking about what I should have bought at the time of fall. The ideal way is to keep learning from the past mistakes in the mind and do not repeat the same at any cost. Ideally, I encourage you to make NEWER mistakes every time. 90% of the time – people remember the mistakes and go on repeating the same in the present and the future. This way you are cheating yourself only.

How the mind works?

People find out what is easy for them to do and find out the reason to support their doing. I am doing CHORI because MERA BAAP WAS CHOR. The other guy picked up – I want to become Police because MERA BAAP WAS CHOR.

See the interpretation in both the brother’s mind and their action. One became the TOP COP and the other died running for his life.

What NEXT?

Look at the events in your life and go for the interpretations which can take you to the next levels and not to the down levels.

Remember - Your CHOICE will become Your DESTINY.

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