The only factor which stands between YOU and What you really want in your life

Tuesday, 12 June 2018

The only factor which stands between YOU and What you really want in your life

Greetings from Hitesh! Thanks for appreciating our last post on GDP. Today we are dealing with personal success or failures. Say you want something and you are not able to get the same. You have always wanted that thing but still you are not going for the same. You always felt that if this one thing or a person is with me, my life would change. But still you have not gone for that. Why?

Getting Disturbed with Your Situation/s: -

Buddha got disturbed looking at the sick person / old person and dead body. It was enough for him to transform his life.

Gandhiji was thrown out of the TRAIN and it disturbed him like anything.

A lady was really disturbed with the torture of his husband and she went for a permanent separation.

A guy was really disturbed with his financial position and he made it a point to become the number one RICHEST person of India.

In a normal person’s life, we always see some dead bodies / sick person / suffer insults / have issues in relationships / have issues on financial front. Still normal guys don’t get transform like the above persons. Why?

Normal guys don’t become DISTURBED genuinely with their problems. They rationalize their issues and they wait for the solutions to emerge rather than to go for the solutions. Taking the advantage of this weakness – our politicians promises MOON to them. Since they don’t want to do anything, they convince themselves that some MASSIHA will come or some MIRACLES will happen, and my problems will be solved. 

Do you remember the slogan of ACCHE DIN – Modi had a great life in last 4 years, how many of us had ACCHE DIN so far? He had ACCHE DIN because he worked for it and did not wait for things to happen. He made it happen.

What do I mean by getting disturbed?

It’s getting HURT internally so much that you can’t stay without solving that issue permanently for you. In BHAGWAT there is a story of DHROOV, who was not allowed to sit in the lap of his FATHER and he went for a PENANCE to get his solutions. Today, also we see DHROOV STAR.  

You can only and only get disturbed if you are radically HONEST with yourself. When you are HONEST, you will not RATIONALIZE or worry for Cost in terms of money and Cost in terms of consequences of your actions. Had GANDHIJI worried for consequences, we would not have got the independence.

Many couples are carrying on their married life on the pretext that what will happen to their KIDS/what will society say, they are not HONEST, and they keep on suffering.

Getting disturbed is all about having a love affair with yourself. Most of the guys who don’t get disturbed are the guys who don’t love themselves from within. When you don’t love yourself, you can’t be HONEST with yourself. You end up rationalize your priorities and live a life of COMPROMISES.

How does this affect your investment behaviour and personal success?

When you are not HONEST with yourself and your first love is not you but SECURITY, you can’t expect the other guys to be fair to you. Other guys will take you for a ride in terms of SECURE and GAURANTEED RETURNS. We have N number of past news when some big guys have taken all the money of NORMAL on the pretext of guaranteed return or interest and run away. We have N number of issues reported in MEDIA for Mis-selling financial products to the NORMAL GUYS by leading BANK employees.

I have no SYMPATHY with such normal guys who are not ready to pay the price in terms of learning investment themselves or pay the price in terms of fees in appointing proper consultant.  

What Next?

Look at all areas of your life. Wherever you are not 100% okay, get disturbed in that area. Once you are disturbed, the game will start, and you will do whatever it takes to do to resolve that issues in your life.

Have a Happy Week Ahead.

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Hitesh Parikh.