How Your Belief in Relationships affects your Investment Performance? Find out.

July 2, 2014

How Your Belief in Relationships affects your Investment Performance?

Greetings from Hitesh! At last rain is on. Our last article on effectiveness of Mr.Modi was a super hit. Most read and forwarded. Your happiness excites me to write me more such articles. Today I am going to deal with one such issue of our life.

By the way, in our last article, we told you market will touch new high. Just see Nifty and Sensex made new high today. (Just read our email and you can mint tons of money)

How Normal Relationship is formed?

You meet a person. You like him/her. You meet that person again. You meet him/her regularly. One day you become friends. One fine morning you find that there is more than friendship between both of you and you call it love. Now, you decide to get married!! You got permanent relationship!! You must live happily forever as in the stories!! Isn’t it? Does this happen in reality? No. How come? Let us deal with it and see how our investment performance is affected by our attachment to relationship.

Love V/s Relationship

Relationship is a structure, and love is a foundation brick. So love relates, certainly, but never becomes a relationship. Love is a moment-to-moment process. Remember it. Love is a state of your being, not a relationship. There are loving people and there are unloving people. Unloving people pretend to love through the relationship. Loving people need not have to have any relationship – love is enough.

Be a loving person rather than in a love relationship – because relationships happen one day and disappear another day. They are flowers; in the morning they bloom, by the evening they are gone. But if you are a loving person, you will be there. So, you should be a loving person.

But people find it very difficult to be a loving person, so they create a relationship – and befool that way that "Now I am a loving person because I got married to my lady love!!" And the relationship may be just one of monopoly, possessiveness, and exclusiveness.

Relationship may be just out of fear, may not have anything to do with love. Relationship may be just a kind of security – financial or something else. The relationship is needed only because love is not there. Relationship is a substitute.

Become alert! Relationship destroys love, destroys the very possibility of its birth.

How does this affect your investment perfomrance?

We believe in basic truth – “the way you do anything, you will do everything.”

When relationship oriented person comes to the market – he will talk about Return on Investments. He will create three separate entities – He / His Investments and His Return on Investments.

In reality, there is only one entity – you and only “YOU”. “YOU” only become husband / father / mother/ brother / friend / executive / businessman / managing director etc. Same way “You” only become your Investments.

If you improve the quality of your “You”, it will get reflected everywhere. You will become LOVE yourself. You will not need the lables of relationship. Same way, when “You” is Investments – you will be happy investing. You will be happy holding it. You will be happy in sharing. You will not have to strive for return. It will just flow automatically. Just try.

The way relationship destroys the love, obsession for return on investments stops you from investing freely.

My Personal Call:-

All my work and write ups are written with an aim to help you find and reach your own centre. To help you live and love your being. To help you decide what is significant and what is not. When you are centered, you can deal with any issues on periphery of your life.

What next?

Just be an investment yourself and invest now. You will get reach rewards for your investments. That’s my promise. If you need any help, do contact us.

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