How to DEAL with Insecurities or Uncertainties when you invest or start new venture?

January 6, 17

How to DEAL with Insecurities or Uncertainties when you invest or start new venture?

Greetings from Hitesh! We are dealing with WEALTH CREATION series. In the first we have dealt with planning aspects for wealth creation in our post on 2^nd Dec.,2017 - Marriage Invitation has the SECRET of Wealth Creation – Must read before it is too late and psychological aspects on January 5, 17, Why Marriages are celebrated with some kind of RITUALS world over? It has a secret of WEALTH CREATION. Today, I am dealing with 100% PRACTICAL difficulty of a BUDDING investor or entrepreneur at the time of starting.

Once again I am taking the LESSON from MARRIAGE.

What happens in the marriage?

BRIDE goes to BRIDEGROOMS place leaving her PARENTS house / FRIENDS / Many times the TOWN or country also changes after marriage. In many communities they change the NAME of the BRIDE after marriage also. So, she has to LEAVE many things before she could start her NEW FAMILY (akin to investments or new venture).

Everybody would have witnessed above phenomenon. Now, when your wife can leave everything and come into your life – how come you are reluctant to start a new business or invest? Why so much insecurity in your mind? Why so much fear of loss?

Why BRIDE can do this so much easily?

The answer lies in the upbringing of the GIRL child. She is being told from the CHILDHOOD that she has to go to HER HUSBAND’s place some day. She is being prepared for that from the early age.  In most wealthy or well-educated class also – the girl is aware that she has to manage someday her own HOUSE.

As a girl grows up – she keep on attending the marriages and seeing other friends getting married and going to IN LAWS place. So, getting married is   NATRUAL process for the girl child.

This does not mean that she has NO FEAR or NO INSECURITY while getting married. She has many fears. But DEEPDOWN in her mind she has been 100% convinced that this is the WAY of LIFE and she has to go through that. This ACCEPCTANCE of change is the major factor for her adaptability post marriage.

What happens with the GUYS?

Thanks to the MIDDLE CLASS thinking pattern of the most families – boys are told to get educated first and find a decent job after that. The boys have seen their father doing job, their neighbors doing job, their friend’s father also doing job. Now, they plan their education so that they get BETTER or BEST JOB than the NEXT DOOR GUY.

I feel so sorry for many parents when they choose the line of education based on the JOB PROSPECTS in the coming time rather than the CALIBRE or CHOICE of their CHILD. This is not only happening with not so educated families but also with well-qualified and well-placed executive’s children. They can’t think beyond JOB when it comes to make MONEY. If boy gets a good job immediately after getting a degree, parents feel really happy and blessed. They think – now the life is settled. They feel SECURE.

What happens when this guy comes to STOCK MARKET?

He has the mind to understand the concept or most of the time he is aware about the game. Unfortunately he lacks the MINDSET of a BRIDE when he approaches the investments. He wants investment return like BANK FD return or SALARY PAYMENTS. This becomes the biggest STUMBLING block for his success in INVESTMENTS.

Many time successful businessmen come to stock market and fails due to this attitude. They have completed their early struggle period in their business and they are relatively certain about their business income now. So, when they come – they also calculate – whether they will make as much money as they are making in their current business or not? This thinking takes away the fun of the investments.

How these PEOPLE are taken for a RIDE by SHRESDEST of the MINDS?

In GUJARATI there is a beautiful saying which says - lobhiya hoi tyan dhutara bhukhe na mare – when GREEDY PEPLE are their – CHEATERS will EXCEL.

Talk about sure shot tip / guaranteed return scheme / doubling money very fast – support with some mouth publicity or constant advertisements and the above categories of the people will invest their HARD EARNED MONEY with them without using their BRAIN.

The BILLIONAIRES are aware about the SECURITY mindset of the normal guys – so they have started MUTUAL FUNDS and SIPS.  They are telling these guys that you need not learn MANAGING YOUR MONEY. We will MANAGE and Give you the RETURN. This is the BIGGEST INSULT of your BRAIN and your LEARNING SKILL.

How HITESH PARIKH is DIFFERENT?

I have 100% faith in your learning abilities. I know that the way you could do your job and earn money, you can also be taught about managing your own money. It’s not the question of MIND; it’s the questions of preparing your MINDSET for investments and new ventures.

It is said that any new venture takes 1000 days for you to settle – same way we ask you to be with us for 1000 days – just 3 years. Be with us and develop the MINDSET. Your generations will bless me for teaching you the fine art of investments.

Do approach us.

Have a GREAT YEAR AHEAD.

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Hitesh Parikh.

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