“I am facing divorce/job loss / getting no loans/health issues/business de-growth – what should I do?”

21^st July 2023

“I am facing divorce/job loss / getting no loans/health issues/business de-growth – what should I do?”

Dear Fellow Travellers,

Namaste! Our post on Jio Finance was well-circulated and read within hours only. You will see the future will pan out as told in the post. Today we are taking up the real issues faced by some of our readers. The above is the list of the issues faced by various people. They asked me some general questions. Rather than personally replying – I have clubbed them together. Let us deal with them now. 

Have you observed the following?

1.   You are badly in need of a Job. You are ready to do whatever work you are getting ( this is the situation after corona for many). But whoever you are approaching – they are not giving you the job. 

2.   You are badly in need of money and no banks / no friends and relatives are ready to lend you money. When you didn’t need money in the past – tons of calls used to come for personal loans / your relatives and friends might have told you – just let me know if you need the money. Now, you need the money and NOBODY is ready to help you.

3.   You are facing some health issues and doctors are not able to diagnose the exact causes and you are moving from one doctor to another. 

4.   You are facing relationship issues and your spouse wants a divorce. You don’t want a divorce but your spouse is adamant about the same. 

5.   Thanks to online shopping habits – your business is suffering and you are not able to maintain the growth of your business. In fact, it is going down. 

The above could be the normal observation in the life of people who are facing issues around you. Here we are dealing with SELF PROCLAIMED INNOCENT/GOOD PERSON. He believes that he is an innocent-good person and the above events are giving stress to him. He should not FACE them. 

Let us understand the science behind the above: - 

When a person is after something – he focuses and becomes single-minded on the same. He wants to solve the issues anyhow and he is putting all his efforts behind the same. While waking up or going to bed – he is thinking about the same. He might be blaming LUCK / PEOPLE who have caused the troubles or people who are not helping him now. He might be frustrated and may have lost hope in the Goodness of the people around him. 

When a person is taken over by his desire – he becomes the Desire himself. He losses all other senses and focus on his needs only. He develops an AURA for the problem in such a way that where ever he goes – the other person comes to know the deep-down intentions of this person without this guy telling him anything. The other person simply refuses to help. 

Another aspect is – he is so engrossed in his goal to solve the issue that he losses the focus on procedures and steps to solve the issues. He does selective listening. This again delays the problem-solving. 

In GITA – Krishna says – do the KARMA like an expert and leave the results to me. This guy is not ready to do the KARMA in a proper way but he is only focused on the results and that too FAST results. Nothing can be done about this attitude. 

What is the way out?

If somebody is facing the above issues – he may be able to co-relate his experiences with an ALARM Clock. Let us assume that somebody has to wake up early at 5am and he sets an alarm. Let us see the 3 possibilities of the ALARM clock.

1.   It’s too early to wake up. Normally I don’t wake up so early. Will I be able to wake up with the ALARM ring? This guy has immense tension to wake up. He may wake up 2-3 times in the night just to check that alarm is yet to ring. Technically, he is sleeping but he is not sleeping at all due to the tension of getting up. Finally, he wakes up and passes the day in DULL MODE. 

2.   Another type is he will sleep deeply. When he listens to the ALARM –  but he will put it off and sleep for another half an hour. When he wakes up he finds that he woke up after 1 hour and now he has the tension to do everything in super-fast mode. He will blame himself for getting up late. He may miss his flight or train due to such behaviour.  

3.   This is the guy who mentally accepts that he has to wake up at 5. He is ready to wake up. He sets up an alarm also. But a few seconds before the ALARM rings – he is awake. He is FRESH and ENERGETIC. He does his work at a normal pace and reaches his work without any stress.

Now the person who is facing the above issues may fall into any of the above 3 categories of ALARM ringing experiences. Assume the ALARM ringing is the PROBLEM you are facing now. 

The first two will face two pains – pains of the actual problem and pains from their resistance to accept the problem as a problem. 

The 3^rd one has accepted the problem and he is prepared to wait for the time to get the issue resolved. His acceptance and patience make him solve his problem before the natural time it needs to cover up. He comes out of the problem at a faster pace and with lesser stress compared to the first two. 

What NEXT?

You can cheat yourself. You can cheat any other person under the Sun. But you can’t cheat the existence. It gives you back whatever you have given. They call it the LAW of KARMA in a better way. If you are suffering – look deeper into your intentions / your way of carrying out your KARMA in the current set up and I am sure you will find the solutions. 

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I wish you all the best.

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