Global Warming Down, Domestic Warming Up – The Current Reality

23^rd April 2020

Global Warming Down, Domestic Warming Up – The Current Reality

Dear Fellow Travellers,

Greetings from Hitesh! My Guru taught me that the best astrologer is the one who knows the presents like nobody else. Knowing the present time, accepting the present time as it is, and being in the present time are the characteristics of the seasoned astrologers. Law of farming works – “As a man sow, shall he reap”. So, do your sowing with alertness, awareness, and with foresight.

Exactly one month ago on 24^th March, we wrote our future-looking post -  24^th March 2020 - If you think CORONA will be the BIGGEST DISEASE in the coming 3 months, then you will be 100% wrong.

The conclusion in the post was – “Corona may or may not hit everybody. But the MENTAL effect will be felt everywhere. So, my focus will be on them.”

We are proved dead right about our call. Once again 100% accuracy in our predictions. As predicted in that post - in the last 30 days I have come across various issues of my clients. Let me share 3 major sources of DOMESTIC WARMING.

Day Today Frustration/Anger removing mechanism: -

Say a person is going to the office in the morning by train. He will remove his anger while getting into the jam-packed compartment of the train. He may enter into some verbal conflicts with fellow travelers. 

Say a person is going by CAR or BIKE – he may speed up the car/bike, he may honk profusely, he may give verbal reprimand to the fellow travelers – Don’t you know driving? and things like that.

Some will argue with the Vegetable vendors/ Watchman/ Milkman, maidservants, and things like that.

Thanks to above – when a person used to come back home – he was NORMAL. But, with the LOCKDOWN – all are staying in the home. With NO INCOME or REDUCED PAY – there is a lot of anger/frustration and the worst part is that it is not coming out as we all are in the home.

This is going to affect the relationships / mental health and general health at all levels.

Positional Frustration Removing Mechanism: -

Say someone is heading a company or business or a political party. He is a kind of KING in his organization. His entry / his sitting in the cabin / his presence makes the difference in the office environment. This guy gets his EGO satisfied like anything when he sees everybody wishes him GOOD MORNING SIR or BOWING DOWN with respect in the political organization.

He feels the feeling of importance while sitting in his office. He feels that he is the maker of DESTINY for the fellow staff people. He can decide the punishment for the wrongdoer and he can elevate the right doers. This is a very good feeling.

Now, this guy is locked down in his home. He misses all his pleasures of being a KING. The worst part comes that he has to listen to his wife and may have to help her in the domestic area. From being a KING to a YES MAN of his wife – will affect the mentality without fail. I am sure this will have more serious effects than the first effect.

Judgemental Frustration Removing Mechanism: -  

Say a Person is an HR head in a company like Reliance / HDFC or any big organization. This guy has the power to decide the Salary Rise / Pay Cuts / Promotion for thousands of employees. He has to follow the company norms and policies while giving his judgments.

The difference between the second and third is – the second is say MUKESH AMBANI – he does not have to ask anybody to decide DESTINY about anybody in the company. While Reliance HR head has to follow the rules approved by company policies or directives from Mukesh Bhai while dealing with the employees.

This is also a MAJOR way to remove the frustration/anger and show that you are one up than your fellow worker.

With the lockdown – this guy is also at home.  He is missing his regular way to remove his anger.

How do we see the situations in reality?

The above categories are overlapping in nature and not fixed. A person may fall into all three categories at the same time or may fall in one category also. Depending on your age/work / social status – there is going to be changed in the way you express your anger.

A student may fight among themselves and remove frustrations. But in the CLASS – their TEACHER is the KING. But when the CLASS TEACHER meets the PRINCIPAL, he is just an employee. So, the overlapping will happen depending on various factors.

How to DEAL with DOMESTIC WARMING?

This is the FACT of the present moment. Today we have finished one month of LOCKDOWN. This is historical by any standard as we have not stayed like this in the past 100 years or more as per my reading of Indian History.

At Destiny Management, we believe – the problem brings the solutions hidden inside it. If you understand the problem with an open mind – solutions will emerge out of the same.

To do it scientifically – we use the horoscope of our client to guide him step by step. A personal horoscope is the easiest way to understand the person in minutes. When you understand the person – it becomes easy to guide him out of the mess.

Most of the masses do not understand the difference between GENERAL GUIDANCE and SPECIFIC GUIDANCE.

Say there is a fight between a HUSBAND and a WIFE. General guidance may say – keep your mouth shut and don’t reply back. This will end the fight. This may look good on the face of it. But in reality - this is REPRESSION of feelings and it will blast more severely in the next fight.

At Destiny Management we are interested in your INDEPENDENCE of EXPRESSION. We want you to feel happy doing what you are doing. If you are not happy doing it NOW, the end results will not be HAPPINESS. We suggest personal guidance related to your specific issues.

If you wish you can approach us for personal guidance.

I wish you all a Thought-Provoking Thursday.

Follow me on Twitter @hiteshmparikh / WhatsApp – +91-9869425399.

Live With Passion…Invest With Passion.

Hitesh Parikh